From: ronaldk636@aol.com (RonaldK636)
Newsgroups: alt.politics.homosexuality
Subject: !!!Help!!!
Date: 22 Dec 1994 18:08:19 -0500

I recently graduated from college and got a job with a firm in Colorado. 
I met this lady at work who had a gay brother.  I in confidence told her
of myself being gay and we became very close.  We had alot of discussions
regarding her brother having aids and myself being gay.  A couple of weeks
ago her brother died of aids.  Since then she has quit her job and is
lashing out at me.  I feel that since her brother died she hates all gay
people and has a personal vendiata against me.  She has filed a Charge of
Sexual Discrimination against me stating I subjected her to unwelcomed
sexual comments of a homosexual nature and I subjected her to a sexually
hostile work environment.  The other problem I have is that I will now
have to tell my employer about myself being gay.  My employer is very
ANTI-GAY and I feel that I will lose my job.  If anyone can give me advise
on what to do , It would be greatly welcomed.  I don't know what to do. 
I'm not ready to come completely out of the closet to my employer or
fellow employees.  Help!!!